“Socialization is a learning that enables the learner to perform social roles.”
Socialization is the foundation on which human interaction is based. Through socialization, one gets to learn new things about different cultures and also helps us to explore ourselves by communicating with different people. Socializing is a lifelong process which helps us to build confidence. Some people are not confident and comfortable enough to interact or socialize with others, as they think they will goof up. There are certain things we should remember while communicating with people for an immediate effect.
- Take the first step- One should always initiate the conversation by quitting the habit of being a loner at a corner. Initiating the conversation makes a person look more confident and approachable.
- Patient listener- A person looks acceptable when they are good listeners. People like to talk about themselves and are attracted to those who are ready to listen. Listening helps us in understanding a person better and we also get to learn from their experiences.
- Be comfortable with yourself- While socializing with people, we should be comfortable with ourselves as it shows our confidence. We should never pretend like someone else and be who we are.
- Avoid immediate judgements- While interacting with someone new we should avoid making judgements without knowing that person and their story.
- Look approachable- It is important to look approachable as it helps people to interact more comfortably with us.
- Not everyone can be pleased- No matter how much we try, improve or do things we cannot please everyone we interact with. It should be taken as an interesting part because not everyone can get along with everyone.
- Experience is the best teacher- Socialising is a good source of learning. Through socialising we meet people who will help us, while others can be of no use. But there is no harm in meeting new people because their past experience can be a learning for our future.
According to my experience, interaction and socialising with people is really important as it helps us to learn and explore the unexplored. If you don’t converse with people you are missing out on great opportunities.